Favors...

When someone ask you to do a favor for them, they should respect you for doing that favor, and be upset when things did not go according to their plan. Yesterday, a friend of my boyfriend's and mine, asked us to drive some 40 something minutes to, and 40 something minutes back to pick up his girlfriend so that he could see her that day. Kyle and I always try to put our friends first, and normally are willing to do anything for our friends. So of course, we were willing to do it. The first disrespectful thing our friend did, was get mad that we wouldn't take him with us to pick her up, when our vehicle only has 3 seats, and he knew it would be illegal. I hate to be the one that upset him, but it was just not possible for 4 people to ride in a 3 seat truck for an hour and a half. So we could not take him. Then, as we pulled into my drive way to pick up things before we headed to church, he was waiting in my driveway, even though I specifically told him don't worry about anything, we will bring her to church. He did this knowing it would upset us, so not only did we just spend an hour and a half doing something for him, he did not respect us enough to go along with our decisions of the deal. I normally try to let things go like this, but he is starting to do this to all of his friends, and have no respect for us or our parents, or his only family. I hate to say it but I believe more and more every day that his girlfriend is a bad influence on him.
Later last night we all went to McDonald's to hang out, along with a group of our friends, there where two mothers, which we all ranted about the things, our friend was doing that we all though was getting out of hand. One of the mother's confided in us that she was still mad at him and that she would be until he apologized. His brother told him when our friend got there that he should apologize for a few things he did to upset her. He was very disrespectful to her, and still didn't say sorry. So after that he decided to tell his brother, that he did not care if we all hated him he was still going to do what he wanted. First off, no one hates him, we are just upset with his recent behavior, but I can't believe after everything everyone has been doing for him, that he is willing to be so disrespectful to us all.